Welcome to The New Leader, where I write without a filter about leadership, the broken hiring system, career reinvention, and what it actually costs to keep showing up.
I write about the part nobody briefs you on. The politics, the tradeoffs, the things leaders don't say out loud. Leadership isn't a gift or a title. It's just people trying to figure it out and not quitting when it gets hard.
That's the new leader. And it's all of us.
Job Seekers' Bill of Rights
Job seekers are not data points. They are people with skills, lives, and real stakes. The current system treats them otherwise. Here are the ten rights I believe every job seeker should be able to count on—and that every employer should be held to.
Ghost jobs: The final insult
As many as 4 in 10 companies posted ghost jobs in 2024—listings that represent no real opportunity, designed to collect data, signal growth, or boost employee morale on the backs of job seekers' hope and time. This is not broken. It is designed.
Why you’re not getting interviews
Everyone blames the algorithm. But the truth is messier than that. Ghost jobs, recruiter overwhelm, unconscious bias, and an obsession with perfect-fit candidates are all part of why strong people aren't getting called. Here's what actually moves the needle.
The experience paradox
There comes a moment when you start wondering whether your experience is still seen as an asset—or quietly becoming a liability. It's a strange and humbling shift, especially for those of us who built our careers on hard-won expertise. The system is failing us. And it's costing companies dearly.
The race you never win
Comparison is like entering a race no one asked you to run—and judging yourself against a runner whose rules, history, and path you don't know. Your career isn't on their timeline. Your story isn't on their terms. The only race worth running is yours.
Leadership Essentials: Belonging
Feeling a genuine sense of belonging at work is rarer than it should be. I've found it in some of the toughest environments—not through formal team-building, but through small shared moments that reminded me I was part of something.
Speaking up, standing out
Thirteen months into unemployment, I stopped staying silent about what was broken in the hiring process. Not out of bitterness—out of conviction. Every post I write is a demonstration of the kind of leader I am. If that scares 99 employers, I'm looking for the one it doesn't.
Lessons from a layoff
From day one, my team wanted me to fail. For four years, I navigated distrust, a rotating cast of contractors, and a culture that blamed marketing for everything while crediting it for nothing. When it ended, I felt relief. Then I felt the damage. Here's what I took from it.
Ghosted, misled, and overlooked
Weeks of silence after a panel interview. A generic rejection. Then I found out: the role was never closed. It was filled—and no one had the decency to tell me the truth. This is what broken hiring looks like from the inside.
A warning to CEOs
The murder of a CEO is a tragic and grim moment that should serve as a wake-up call—not about security, but about trust. For a generation that grew up watching corporations get bailed out while ordinary people bore the consequences, the discontent is not surprising. It is earned.
The hiring process is broken
The numbers tell a clear story: the hiring process isn't working for anyone. Job seekers feel invisible. Recruiters are overwhelmed. And organizations are losing real talent to inefficiencies they won't acknowledge. This is a leadership problem with a leadership solution.
Holiday layoffs: What now?
Holiday layoffs are brutal. For the person let go, it feels personal, whatever you're told. For the leader making the call, it's a different kind of pain. I've been on both sides. Here's what I've learned about surviving it—and about leading with humanity when it's hardest.
Don’t pause your job search
Conventional wisdom says no one hires during the holidays. I've found the opposite to be true. Smaller applicant pools, end-of-year budget urgency, and a quieter pace that makes you easier to notice—if you stop, you're giving up an edge.
Action, not advice
Long-term unemployment isn't just financially draining—it's emotionally isolating. LinkedIn is full of advice. What's rare are the people who take action: who share a resume, make an introduction, write a recommendation without being asked. That's what actually changes someone's trajectory.
Unemployed, not undone
One year ago, I lost my job. I never expected to be here: unemployed, uncertain, staring at a blank future. This is what a year of reinvention, rejection, and finding your footing again actually looks like—from the inside.
Leadership Essentials: Imperfection
A line from the film Conclave stopped me cold. It's about leadership as much as anything. The best leaders aren't the ones who insist on perfection. They're the ones who have the humility to doubt and the courage to carry on.
How to kill a brand in X steps
Twitter used to be the global town square. Now it's a lesson in what happens when you discard the values that built your brand. Every decision Musk made with X has a business parallel—and every leader should study what went wrong.
Do we trust women leaders?
The election results are still fresh, and I'm sitting with something uncomfortable: a deeply qualified woman lost to a man with a deeply flawed record. This isn't just a political story. It's a workplace story. And we haven't moved the needle nearly as far as we thought.
The evolution of leadership
Leadership has changed profoundly in the last 30 years. I started my career when empathy would have raised eyebrows. Today, it's the expectation. Gen Z has accelerated this—but the shift started with Emotional Intelligence, and it's not reversing.
The resilience of GenX
I'm proudly Gen X—and we bring something no other generation can: we lived through every technological revolution, from analog to digital, and drove the changes everyone else is still catching up to. We're not a bridge. We're the builders.
Clarity is not just a communication skill. It is a leadership responsibility. Leaders who do not create clarity cannot expect alignment, focus, or consistent results. They can only expect more noise.