Welcome to The New Leader, where I write without a filter about leadership, the broken hiring system, career reinvention, and what it actually costs to keep showing up.
I write about the part nobody briefs you on. The politics, the tradeoffs, the things leaders don't say out loud. Leadership isn't a gift or a title. It's just people trying to figure it out and not quitting when it gets hard.
That's the new leader. And it's all of us.
Everything, all at once
Marketing is expected to be strategic and responsive at the same time, which in practice often turns into everything everywhere all at once. When priorities aren't clear and tradeoffs aren't owned, the work expands, the team stays busy, and real impact gets harder to achieve.
Leadership Essentials: Clarity
Clarity is not just a communication skill. It is a leadership responsibility. Leaders who do not create clarity cannot expect alignment, focus, or consistent results. They can only expect more noise.
The problem with marketing
Most companies say marketing is critical. Very few can consistently define what it actually is. When leaders don't define a function clearly, they don't just create confusion—they create instability. Here's why marketing keeps getting this treatment, and what it costs.
Why change fails
Companies talk about transformation constantly. They use the right language, hire for it, frame it as strategy. But when the work starts exposing how the organization actually operates—who owns what, where the handoffs break—you find out quickly whether the mandate was real.
No growth without change
Most companies aren't hiring for marketing leaders right now. They're hiring for the appearance of one. They want performance without authority, outcomes without decisions, and transformation without discomfort. This post names the paradox—and what to do if you're in it.
The hidden power of being new
While you're wrapped in imposter syndrome, wondering if you belong, the people around you are feeling relief. Help has arrived. Most people miss this window entirely. Here's how to use it—including a 30/60/90-day framework built from the interview answers that got you the job.
The post-experience trap
I've recently started reporting to a manager twenty years younger than me. It works beautifully. But I stumbled into a conversation where a leader defended hiring without regard for experience—and what she described wasn't creativity. It was compliance. Here's why that argument is wrong.
Leadership Essentials: Entitlement
A class action notice—one I qualified for simply by having worked there—reminded me of something I already knew. The old model of leadership, the one built on entitlement and fear, is breaking down. And employees are no longer willing to absorb it silently.
What am I growing?
I read Moral Ambition and haven't been able to shake it. I've spent decades helping companies grow—some whose missions I believed in, some I took for the salary. After more than a year out of full-time work, I'm asking a question I used to avoid: what am I growing, and why?
Rejected by design
You weren't underqualified. You were invisible to the machine. This week's Workday lawsuit confirms what job seekers have known all along: we were rejected by design.
The line in the sand
When I had cancer, some people disappeared. Others surprised me completely. I'm seeing the same pattern now, over a year into unemployment. Public vulnerability is a filter. It changes your relationships, your identity, and your sense of who you are. This is about the ones who stay.
Leadership Essentials: Authenticity
At 29, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in the middle of a major career transition. It was a hard reset that ultimately taught me the most important lessons of my leadership life—about empathy, self-worth, and the courage to bring your whole self to work.
Bright is not a compliment
A seasoned founder called me 'bright' at the close of a brief interview. I wasn't hurt. I was curious. Language is never accidental. 'Bright' is often the word used when someone wants to decline without confrontation—and what it signals about readiness, authority, and who belongs.
Your AI intern lies
I caught my AI intern in a lie last week. A company it described—specific funding round, CEO profile, everything—turned out not to exist. That's not a glitch. That's how large language models work. Here's what hallucinations are, why they happen, and how to catch them before they cost you.
Foundations founders forget
Speed is a founder's greatest asset and greatest liability. When pressure takes over, marketing becomes reactive—producing whatever the business asks for, without the strategy, systems, or authority to connect that work to revenue. Here's what gets missed, and what to build instead.
The insider job market
The so-called top 1% isn't about performance. It's about pedigree—the right schools, the right logos, the right people who already vouched for you. I've been on both sides of this filter. Same skills. Different read. Here's what that looks like—and what to do if you're not an insider.
Straight to trash
I've been job searching for 500 days. I've done everything right. And I keep hearing from people with nonlinear paths—survivors, caregivers, career changers—who are being systematically erased. The data backs it up. This is not a candidate problem. This is a design problem.
Leadership Essentials: Rest
We don't build rest into leadership. We build urgency, hustle, and heroic recovery stories. We admire the leader who shows up anyway—who powers through, who sacrifices. But exhaustion isn't a virtue. And the leaders we should follow are the ones who know when to stop.
Leadership Essentials: Perspective
Every spring break, my son and I take a road trip. It's not a break from leadership—it's a return to it. These trips give me perspective: a reminder that the long view, the human view, is what allows me to lead without losing myself.
Starting over. Again.
In 1999, I left a Fortune 100 job after cancer and started over at a five-person startup. It looked like a step backward. It was a lifeline. Two people—a recruiter and a hiring manager—saw something in me and trusted their gut. They changed my life. Most leaders never realize they have that power.