Welcome to The New Leader, where I write without a filter about leadership, the broken hiring system, career reinvention, and what it actually costs to keep showing up.
I write about the part nobody briefs you on. The politics, the tradeoffs, the things leaders don't say out loud. Leadership isn't a gift or a title. It's just people trying to figure it out and not quitting when it gets hard.
That's the new leader. And it's all of us.
Leadership Essentials: Belonging
Feeling a genuine sense of belonging at work is rarer than it should be. I've found it in some of the toughest environments—not through formal team-building, but through small shared moments that reminded me I was part of something.
Speaking up, standing out
Thirteen months into unemployment, I stopped staying silent about what was broken in the hiring process. Not out of bitterness—out of conviction. Every post I write is a demonstration of the kind of leader I am. If that scares 99 employers, I'm looking for the one it doesn't.
Lessons from a layoff
From day one, my team wanted me to fail. For four years, I navigated distrust, a rotating cast of contractors, and a culture that blamed marketing for everything while crediting it for nothing. When it ended, I felt relief. Then I felt the damage. Here's what I took from it.
Ghosted, misled, and overlooked
Weeks of silence after a panel interview. A generic rejection. Then I found out: the role was never closed. It was filled—and no one had the decency to tell me the truth. This is what broken hiring looks like from the inside.
A warning to CEOs
The murder of a CEO is a tragic and grim moment that should serve as a wake-up call—not about security, but about trust. For a generation that grew up watching corporations get bailed out while ordinary people bore the consequences, the discontent is not surprising. It is earned.
The hiring process is broken
The numbers tell a clear story: the hiring process isn't working for anyone. Job seekers feel invisible. Recruiters are overwhelmed. And organizations are losing real talent to inefficiencies they won't acknowledge. This is a leadership problem with a leadership solution.
Holiday layoffs: What now?
Holiday layoffs are brutal. For the person let go, it feels personal, whatever you're told. For the leader making the call, it's a different kind of pain. I've been on both sides. Here's what I've learned about surviving it—and about leading with humanity when it's hardest.
Don’t pause your job search
Conventional wisdom says no one hires during the holidays. I've found the opposite to be true. Smaller applicant pools, end-of-year budget urgency, and a quieter pace that makes you easier to notice—if you stop, you're giving up an edge.
Action, not advice
Long-term unemployment isn't just financially draining—it's emotionally isolating. LinkedIn is full of advice. What's rare are the people who take action: who share a resume, make an introduction, write a recommendation without being asked. That's what actually changes someone's trajectory.
Unemployed, not undone
One year ago, I lost my job. I never expected to be here: unemployed, uncertain, staring at a blank future. This is what a year of reinvention, rejection, and finding your footing again actually looks like—from the inside.
Leadership Essentials: Imperfection
A line from the film Conclave stopped me cold. It's about leadership as much as anything. The best leaders aren't the ones who insist on perfection. They're the ones who have the humility to doubt and the courage to carry on.
How to kill a brand in X steps
Twitter used to be the global town square. Now it's a lesson in what happens when you discard the values that built your brand. Every decision Musk made with X has a business parallel—and every leader should study what went wrong.
Do we trust women leaders?
The election results are still fresh, and I'm sitting with something uncomfortable: a deeply qualified woman lost to a man with a deeply flawed record. This isn't just a political story. It's a workplace story. And we haven't moved the needle nearly as far as we thought.
The evolution of leadership
Leadership has changed profoundly in the last 30 years. I started my career when empathy would have raised eyebrows. Today, it's the expectation. Gen Z has accelerated this—but the shift started with Emotional Intelligence, and it's not reversing.
The resilience of GenX
I'm proudly Gen X—and we bring something no other generation can: we lived through every technological revolution, from analog to digital, and drove the changes everyone else is still catching up to. We're not a bridge. We're the builders.
Experience isn't an expiration date
For decades, experienced professionals were the ones companies called when the stakes were high. Now they're often screened out before anyone reads their name. Experience isn't a liability. It's adaptability—and companies that overlook it are paying for that mistake.
The new Wild West of job hunting
I spotted six marketing roles this week—all posted by founders or CMOs, all linking straight to the company website, all bypassing LinkedIn Jobs entirely. The hidden job market isn't hidden anymore. It's right in front of us, and the rules have changed.
Avoid ghosting after a layoff
Your last day is filled with empathy and promises to keep in touch. Then comes the silence. We've all been on both sides of this. A single message, a shared job lead, a real check-in—these are the acts that actually matter when someone's world has been turned upside down.
Why are we still working 9-5?
Millennial moms are going viral asking how to balance it all. But Gen Z is asking a different question: why are we still structuring work this way? One question is about surviving the system. The other is about dismantling it.
The power of “I don’t know”
One of the most powerful things a leader can say is 'I don't know.' Not because it signals weakness, but because it opens the door to the collective intelligence of your team. The leaders who get this build something most never do: genuine trust.